Sunday, June 16, 2019

6-16-19 Listen up Fathers!


Scripture   Deuteronomy 6:1-25
A school teacher was correcting papers, and as she looked at one little boy’s work, she was appalled with the results. She said, “I fail to understand how one person could make so many mistakes.” The boy replied, “But it wasn’t just one person. My dad helped!
Invite all Father’s to come to the front and stand to hear the word of the Lord - even as the Israelite men would have stood for the first time to hear these words of instructions from Moses.  Also invite any men 18 years or older who may potentially become a father one day.   
Deuteronomy 6:1-25
          These are the commands, decrees and laws the Lord  your God directed me to teach you to observe in the land that you are crossing the Jordan to possess, so that you, your children and their children after them may fear the Lord your God as long as you live by keeping all his decrees and commands that I give you, and so that you may enjoy long life. Hear, O Israel, and be careful to obey so that it may go well with you and that you may increase greatly in a land flowing with milk and honey, just as the Lord, the God of your fathers, promised you.
Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.
When the Lord your God brings you into the land he swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, to give you — a land with large, flourishing cities you did not build, houses filled with all kinds of good things you did not provide, wells you did not dig, and vineyards and olive groves you did not plant — then when you eat and are satisfied, be careful that you do not forget the Lord, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
Fear the Lord your God, serve him only and take your oaths in his name. Do not follow other gods, the gods of the peoples around you; for the Lord  your God, who is among you, is a jealous God and his anger will burn against you, and he will destroy you from the face of the land. Do not test the Lord your God as you did at Massah. Be sure to keep the commands of the Lord  your God and the stipulations and decrees he has given you. Do what is right and good in the Lord's sight, so that it may go well with you and you may go in and take over the good land that the Lord  promised on oath to your forefathers, thrusting out all your enemies before you, as the Lord said.
In the future, when your son asks you, "What is the meaning of the stipulations, decrees and laws the Lord our God has commanded you?" tell him: "We were slaves of Pharaoh in Egypt, but the Lord  brought us out of Egypt with a mighty hand. Before our eyes the Lord sent miraculous signs and wonders — great and terrible — upon Egypt and Pharaoh and his whole household. But he brought us out from there to bring us in and give us the land that he promised on oath to our forefathers. The Lord commanded us to obey all these decrees and to fear the Lord our God, so that we might always prosper and be kept alive, as is the case today. And if we are careful to obey all this law before the Lord our God, as he has commanded us, that will be our righteousness."
Deuteronomy 6:1-25
These are the commands, decrees and laws
Commands = the things you must do.
Decrees = Things God has stated as truth.
Laws = Things that govern your day to day life with others.

the Lord your God
These words are coming from a personal God - not a statue or theory, but from the Lord, YOUR God!
Ps 23 The Lord is MY shepherd. Ps 18 The Lord is MY rock. Ps 27 The Lord is MY salvation. Ps 28 The Lord is MY strength. Acts 17:27-28  God did this so that men would seek him and perhaps reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from each one of us.
Eph 2:12-13   Remember that at that time you were separate from Christ, excluded from citizenship in Israel and foreigners to the covenants of the promise, without hope and without God in the world. But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far away have been brought near through the blood of Christ.

directed me to teach you to observe
God is not suggesting that fathers teach their children His ways - God is directing fathers to teach their children His ways. And to do it in the place he has blessed you to live - in the land that you are crossing the Jordan to possess, which serves as a reminder that all the good things we have are a gift from God, and we need to teach that to our children.

2 so that you, your children and their children after them
Note that Father’s are to have a lasting impact on their children and their children after them - that means their grandchildren, right? Right. But it says something more - it says so that YOU, your children and children after them (beyond grandchildren). But look at the “YOU” part - Dropping off kids to church, or even taking your children to church and having it mean nothing to you is maybe worse than not going at all. Father’s especially, create patterns that their children will follow for good or bad. What things do you do that are similar to your father? I would guess in most cases there are things both good and bad. The single best pattern you can teach your children is consistent - meaningful participation in worship. WHY?

“So that they”…may fear the Lord your God as long as you live by keeping all his decrees and commands that I give you, and so that you may enjoy long life. 3 Hear, O Israel, and be careful to obey so that it may go well with you and that you may increase greatly in a land flowing with milk and honey, just as the Lord, the God of your fathers, promised you.

The SHEMA
4 Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.  5 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. 6 These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. 7 Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. 8 Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. 9 Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.
          Hear - Love - Impress - Talk - Tie - Bind - Write
          ABAB pattern = The Lord our God, the Lord is one (meaning only) Singular devotion to the one true God. (Jesus - “Worship the Lord you God and serve him only”)
How do we show our devotion to this one and only God? LOVE! What does that love look like? It looks like loving God with ALL your HEART, with ALL your SOUL, and with ALL your STRENGTH.
a)    Our Love for God works from the inside out not the other way as most religions work. Love begins with the heart - here meaning the seat of the emotions, the will and the mind = the inner person - heart and mind.
b)    Then it moves to the NIV translated word “soul” but is literally translated “throat” and metaphorically means appetite/desire or living being - the whole person.
c)    Finally it moves to the external “strength”. The word is better understood as “resources” which includes physical strength, but also the social and economic strength of a person, which includes your relationships and everything you own.
To love God as the Fathers of the Israelites are being directed to do - is to love God with every fiber of your heart, mind, entire being and all that you are and all that you have. Living such a life is the best gift any father can give to his children, not to mention his wife and community.

10 When the Lord  your God brings you into the land he swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, to give you — a land with large, flourishing cities you did not build, 11 houses filled with all kinds of good things you did not provide, wells you did not dig, and vineyards and olive groves you did not plant — then when you eat and are satisfied, 12 be careful that you do not forget the Lord, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.
I have seen this many times over years of ministry. It usually happens to a single person - they have a need for relationship and seek the church and or Christ. They have a wonderful experience with the church. Then they get involved in a relationship and the other person comes to church a few times, then we see that person less and less. WHY? Because they forgot who gave them that relationship, or job, or whatever else now takes the Lord’s place as #1 in their life. God is looking for fathers who are fully devoted to Christ and his church and nothing less.
13 Fear the Lord your God serve him only and take your oaths in his name. 14 Do not follow other gods, the gods of the peoples around you; 15 for the Lord your God, who is among you, is a jealous God and his anger will burn against you, and he will destroy you from the face of the land. 16 Do not test the Lord your God as you did at Massah. (Moses - water from the rock) 17 Be sure to keep the commands of the Lord your God and the stipulations and decrees he has given you. 18 Do what is right and good in the Lord 's sight, so that it may go well with you and you may go in and take over the good land that the Lord  promised on oath to your forefathers, 19 thrusting out all your enemies before you, as the Lord said.
Listen up fathers! Why should you know how and why should you live according to the ways of the Lord our God - Jesus Christ? Because…
20 In the future, when your son asks you, "What is the meaning of the stipulations, decrees and laws the Lord our God has commanded you?" 21 tell him: "We were slaves of Pharaoh in Egypt, but the Lord brought us out of Egypt with a mighty hand. 22 Before our eyes the Lord sent miraculous signs and wonders — great and terrible — upon Egypt and Pharaoh and his whole household. 23 But he brought us out from there to bring us in and give us the land that he promised on oath to our forefathers. 24 The Lord commanded us to obey all these decrees and to fear the Lord our God, so that we might always prosper and be kept alive, as is the case today. 25 And if we are careful to obey all this law before the Lord our God, as he has commanded us, that will be our righteousness."

          Fathers - Men of the church - now you know how to live. But some might be tempted to live otherwise - to not pay attention to the scripture we have heard today that serves as a road sign, warning us of the danger in not following the Lord and setting an example for others;
IILUSTRATION
The story is told about the father of a vacationing family who came across a large sign that read, “Road Closed. Do Not Enter.” The man proceeded around the sign because he was confident it would save them time. His wife was resistant to the adventure, but there was no turning back for this persistent road warrior. After a few miles of successful navigation, he began to boast about his gift of discernment. / His proud smile was quickly replaced with humble sweat when the road led to a washed-out bridge. He turned the car around and retraced his tracks to the main road. When they arrived at the original warning sign he was greeted by large letters on the back of the sign “Welcome back, stupid!
Sometimes we can have utmost confidence in ourselves to figure out issues or fix problems, but we let ourselves down. Confidence is only as good as the object it’s placed in. The wise father, the wise person lives by loving Jesus with ALL of their HEART with ALL of their SOUL and with ALL of their strength.
GOD IS WITH YOU
Remember our story about the boy who didn’t do his work alone but his dad helped. It is true in the best way about our heavenly father as we seek to LOVE according to His ways.

The story is told about a little boy who had been invited to a friend’s birthday party. He was so excited and started counting the days until the party. But the morning of the party he was devastated when he found that a blizzard had struck their little town. The snow was falling in wet, heavy flakes, and the wind was howling. “I don’t think you should go to the party,” his father said. The little boy was so disappointed.
He began to importune his father, begging to be allowed to go. Finally, much to his surprise, his dad said, “All right, you can go to the party.” The little boy bundled up in his hat and coat and mittens and started down the street to his friend’s house. When he got to the door, he turned around and saw his father turning to walk back home. It was then he realized that his father had been walking behind him all the way to make sure he was safe.
"he abides faithful" (2 Timothy 2:13).

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