Because Kim and my children have dedicated most of our lives to my call (our call) to full-time vocational ministry, and because of alarming statistics combined with what I have observed among clergy colleagues, and because of my new work of assisting other churches find pastoral leadership, I want to speak to that part of this text that talks about called vocational leadership in the church and what that means for you.
Let’s state the problem. Let’s look at some solutions. Let’s hear from several people in full-time ministry. And finally, let’s see what this means for all of us.
From the time I was in seminary in the early 80’s I have seen people struggle with the call to ministry. Kim and I were astounded at how many young married men in seminary dropped out or found themselves in a constant debate between ministry and family as so many wives wanted little to nothing to do with their husbands seeking full time ministry. I have seen that struggle often since seminary as well. Unless you are single, a call to full-time vocational ministry is never for one person in a marital relationship. I was called to pastoral ministry and Kim was called to be a pastor’s wife. They were individual calls that had to parallel one another if that call was to be fully realized. The spouse of a pastor (husband if the pastor is the wife) does not have the same calling but must have their own sense of call from God or they will be a miserable person indeed.
The reason I said young married men is because I do not remember any of the females in seminary who were married at the time. I saw call struggles their as well. I struggled to see the women I went to seminary with actually pastoring a church because most seemed to carry a huge chip on their shoulders feeling they had to prove something more – in their position I would have likely felt the same way. The problem was that caused a conflict with a call to ministry. Once out of seminary I worked with several female pastors who did not have that chip on their shoulder and were as confident in their call as any man and they didn’t have to prove anything because they walked in a humble confidence that God had called them into ministry.
There are several things that can cause a struggle for a clear call to ministry. Financially, pastors are paid less than their educational equals. The former minimum education requirement was 7 years of college with a bachelor’s degree followed by a Master’s of divinity degree followed by an arduous ordination process. Then and only then could you have been considered for a full time ministry position. Anyone have a clue as to how much 7 years of full time college costs while you are working as a part time youth pastor or a restaurant server?
There are other struggles with a call to ministry like each persons own moral failures. There are pastors who would like you to think they are squeaky clean but we have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.
Some people believe they are called to ministry when in reality they are trying to escape working in a secular job or are fulfilling expectations because my dad and grandpa were preachers. Many are not theologically or practically prepared for ministry. One 30-something pastor said it this way: “I had this idea that I would have all this free time and short work weeks. Ministry seemed like a piece of cake compared to the world I was coming from. I couldn’t have been more wrong. It is unbelievably demanding. I am on call 24-hours a day whether I admit it or not.”
Pastoral and other forms of vocational ministry can be the most rewarding of any job in the world. When you see lives changed for the better, your church being a positive influence in the community, people destined for hell finding forgiveness of sins and eternal life in Jesus Christ can’t be compared to any other vocation. In our church we have 3 former pastors (Gary, Merry, Pete) and families with pastors in them (Camick’s Harris’s). They understand first hand the struggles and many joys of vocational ministry. The reality is, many pastors don’t experience those things enough compared to the negatives.
Newly Revised Statistics
- 84% of pastors feel they are on call 24/7.
- 80% believe pastoral ministry has negatively affected their families. Many pastor's children do not attend church now because of what the church has done to their parents.
- 65% of pastors feel their family lives in a "glass house" and fear they are not good enough to meet expectations.
- 78% of pastors report having their vacation and personal time interrupted with ministry duties or expectations.
- 28% of pastors report having feelings of guilt for taking personal time off and not telling the church.
- 66% of church members expect a minister and family to live at a higher moral standard than themselves.
- 90% of pastors report the ministry was completely different than what they thought it would be like before they entered the ministry.
- 85% of pastors report the use of the internet and other resources have improved their study time compared to when they first started their ministry.
- 50% of pastors state they spend 1 hour in prayer each day.
- 57% of pastors believe they do not receive a livable wage.
- 75% of pastors report significant stress-related crisis at least once in their ministry.
- 54% of pastors find the role of a pastor overwhelming.
- 40% report serious conflict with a parishioner at least once in the last year.
- 80% of pastors expect conflict within their church.
- 35% of pastors battle depression or fear of inadequacy.
- 28% of pastors report they are spiritually undernourished.
- Over 50% of pastors state the biggest challenge is to recruit volunteers and encourage their members to change (living closer to God's Word).
- 70% of pastors report they have a lower self-image now than when they first started.
- 57% of pastors feel fulfilled but yet discouraged, stressed, and fatigued.
- Over 50% of pastors are unhealthy, overweight, and do not exercise.
- The profession of “Pastor” is near the bottom of a survey of the most-respected professions, just above “car salesman”.
- Many denominations are reporting an "Empty Pulpit Crisis".
- Only 1 out of every 10 pastors will actually retire as a pastor.
- 250 pastor’s a month leave the pastorate, many without giving a cause. That number is much lower than it was 10 years ago, but there are now a lower % of pastors currently in the vocation.
- 73% of churches are treating their pastors better. This statistic has improved due to the advent of clergy appreciation, better education on the role of the pastor, and denominational awareness to better supporting their pastors.
- 77% of pastors, especially millennials are spending 20 or more hours with their families each week.
- 90% of pastors feel they are called and in the place where God has called them.
Let’s hear from a few people who have been called into vocational ministry – our former pastor followed by some other local church and ministry leaders.
VIDEO: “Call to Ministry”
So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers,
apostles, Person sent to share the message of Christ.
12 equip God’s people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up 13 until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.
Judson’s churches in Burma have had fifty thousand converts, and the influence of his consecrated life is felt around the world.
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