Scripture Mark
10:32-34
They were on
their way up to Jerusalem, with Jesus leading the way, and the disciples were
astonished, while those who followed were afraid. Again he took the Twelve
aside and told them what was going to happen to him. 33 "We are going up to Jerusalem," he said, "and the Son of Man will be betrayed to the chief priests and
teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death and will hand him over to
the Gentiles, 34 who will mock him
and spit on him, flog him and kill him. Three days later he will rise."
(a) My mom died 10 years
ago this past Tues. (b)
Gretchen, Gideon, Gemma and I went to the Union cemetery in Oak Harbor to place
flowers on her grave and have prayer together. (c) I could barely get through the prayer and
broke down when I was there alone after they left.
Funny
things about my mom and death while she was alive – she always said, “No one
will ever come to visit me” Little did she know some of her family would live
this close. (d) She
had her tombstone made several years before she died and a few times a year she
said she would go by the cemetery to make sure the end date had not yet been
filled in.
My
mom lived her last few years needing oxygen but continued to live well even as
she was dying. (e) She
still went golfing with me, cared for others driving them to doctor visits,
being at all family and most church events. Calling to have me join her for
coffee. For 2 weeks she was getting quite ill but we never knew it. (f) Finally, right after
church I got a call and got her to the hospital. She never went back to her
apartment. She spent that week dying making sure that we were all going to be
ok and called all her friends to say good bye. (g) Her only reason for not wanting to die was so
she could still be here for us when we needed her. She loved her 3 sons and
their family’s more than anything on earth and made that abundantly clear. (h) But she also showed
us during that week that life is really short and that we ought to do all we
can to show love and compassion to all people – that hatred, anger and
bitterness shorten the life while living it and shorten it because of how it
affects your body. I learned a lot about my mom by how she died.
While
I was alone at the cemetery I thought about my brother (i) Rick who died just over a year ago and
my tears for the loss of my mom mingled with the tears for the loss of my
brother. The way my brother Rick died allowed me to learn more about him. (j) I joked about him not
fulfilling my dream (50 year revival of Music Man) and he didn’t complain or
say I was being selfish – (k)
he was upset he would not be able to do it because he wanted to do it so badly
– I never realized – it was his dream too.
(L) We only had one “last
day” with him but it was a good day. He taught me the exact same things my mom
did as he was dying. (m)
He had lived with such care and compassion for other people, he continued to
show that as he was dying. He didn’t want to bother anyone with his needs even
as he was about to die. (n)
Whether it was a family member or the person bringing in medical equipment – he
showed everyone that he was glad they were there. He taught us to never speak
words of anger and frustration because once they are released they can’t come
back. (o) BTW I
hope my brother gave his heart to Jesus in his last moments but he lived and
died showing these things better than many of us do who claim to be redeemed by
our savior. (p) My
mom lived most of her life without a commitment to Christ but still had these
amazing god-given qualities built into her.
I
would like to share the story of one more person I am very close to and the way
he died and the things I learned about him by the way he died. He died just
over 2000 years ago. He was a carpenter by trade growing up in a little town in
Northern Israel near the sea of Galilee. When he was about 30 he became an
itinerate preacher, going from town to town preaching the good news of the
kingdom of God. His name is Jesus!
Mark 10:32-34
They were on
their way up to Jerusalem, with Jesus leading the way, and the disciples were
astonished, while those who followed were afraid. Again he took the Twelve
aside and told them what was going to happen to him. 33 "We are going up to Jerusalem," he said, "and the Son of Man will be betrayed to the chief priests and
teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death and will hand him over to
the Gentiles, 34 who will mock him
and spit on him, flog him and kill him. Three days later he will rise."
The rich man was
told to go sell everything and give to the poor, then come follow me. He went
away sad because he had great wealth.
It wasn’t about
the fact that he was rich – it was that his riches were a block to him
following Jesus. It wasn’t legalistic about selling and giving to the poor – it
was about following Jesus. We each have things – job, family, recreation,
money, drugs, anger, bitterness that serve a block from us following Jesus.
Jesus says to each of us – get rid of that thing that keeps you from following
me – then COME FOLLOW ME! If you are not following Jesus – you are going the
wrong way. He is the only one with the GPS that will get you to heaven – the
God Positioning System.
It is
interesting, as I have been reading about the cross and Jesus’ death, several
authors have commented that Jesus death was different, because he died on
purpose. At first that seems powerful, my mother and brother did not die on
purpose – they both wanted to stay here longer.
One author wrote, “Jesus
died…on purpose. No surprise. No hesitation. No faltering. You can tell a lot
about a person by the way he dies. And the way Jesus marched to his death
leaves no doubt; he had come to earth for this moment.” – Max Lucado
In
fact, notice how our text shows his purpose as he is facing death within the
week -
They were on their way up to Jerusalem, with Jesus leading the way.
Jesus is rarely out front. He is always leading the way but he is usually
“with” the crowd. This is the only text I know of that mentions Jesus “leading
the way” which suggests marching forward with the purpose that Lucado mentions.
Then I thought, I don’t think that tells us a lot about Jesus – many people
have died with purpose. Japanese kamikaze pilots died with purpose. The 911
terrorists flew into buildings that killed them – they died on purpose. 35 year
old,
(q) Scott
Beigel, a Geography teacher at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School was
murdered after letting students take shelter in his classroom & got in the
way of the shooter as he tried to enter the class. Beigel died on purpose to
save others.
(r) Victoria
Soto, 27, a first-grade teacher at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown,
Conn., ushered her students into a closet, and in so doing placed her body
between them and the assailant and saving their lives she died for a purpose.
You can tell a lot about a person by the way they die. But Jesus dying for a
purpose is not necessarily as unique as these authors make it seem.
However,
the last few words I read earlier from Lucado could be so easily missed and
when I read it a second time it hit me like a ton of bricks helping me know who
Jesus is by the way he died. At the end
of the quote I shared, it read, “
he (Jesus) had come to earth for this
moment.
Besides
the effect for us, Jesus death was different from anyone else’s death – even
those who died with a purpose and/or on purpose. You see, every human dies
because they were born. Sounds obvious right? Think about it – we had no
choice to be born – we had nothing to do with it. We have no choice about dying
(possible choice of when and how but not “if”) – one out of every one person
born eventually dies. Jesus was also born and therefore, like all humans, was going
to die. The difference? Jesus is truly the only person ever born for the sole
purpose of dying. He was not born to teach and to heal and to show
miracles. Those are simply products of his journey toward death. From the
moment of Holy Spirit conception in Mary, Jesus was born to die? (s) Why? So that we might
live. If Jesus was born and taught and healed and did miracles but did not die
– we would then still die in our sins. Jesus was born to die – that tells us a
lot about who Jesus is – he is God. And, he is love. (t) 1 John 4:9-12 This is how God showed
his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might
live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and
sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so
loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if
we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.
Since
Jesus was born to die as a way to show God’s love to us. Then we are not only
born but reborn to live and therefore show God’s love to the world by loving
one another.
COMMUNION
Are you hurting and broken within? Overwhelmed by the weight of your sin?
Jesus is calling
Have you come to the end of yourself, Do you thirst for a drink from the well?
Jesus is calling
O come to the altar, The Father's arms are open wide
Forgiveness was bought with the precious blood of Jesus Christ
Leave behind your regrets and mistakes. Come today, there's
no reason to wait
Jesus is calling - Bring your sorrows and trade them for joy
From the ashes, a new life is born Jesus is calling